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每個人都有自己的春天。即使年歲悄悄爬上頭頂的銀發，心中的那點火花從不熄滅。79歲的劉奶奶，在小區廣場跳舞的時候，笑著說——“我依然會對男性動心，這不是羞恥，是本能呀！”她的坦然，不僅讓一旁的鄰居們抿嘴偷樂，還讓許多中年朋友深受啟發。

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http://m.tzwlkj.net/pictures/176778.shtml自然界里的萬事萬物都遵循自己的規律。喜歡誰、欣賞誰，也是人的天性。有些美好不分年齡，心動就是最好的證明，每個人都值得被疼愛，哪怕白發蒼蒼、滿臉皺紋。

中年之后，我們習慣隱藏情感，把夢想鎖進抽屜，把悸動關進心底。可是，如果生活只剩下柴米油鹽，何來的激情？學會欣賞別人，也是一種自我接納。你可以成為溫柔的媽媽、可靠的丈夫，但別忘了，你也是那個期待驚喜的小孩。

有的人過了四十，總覺得愛情和自己沒關系了。其實，真正熱愛生活的人，總愿意給心靈開扇窗。也許不是一定要轟轟烈烈談戀愛，但偶爾對別人心動，感受到被關注，被欣賞，那份年輕的心氣兒還在。這份本能沒什么可避諱的，只會讓人更懂生活。

別嘲笑年邁的心動。奶奶說，我們的身體可能會老去，靈魂永遠年輕。她跟我們講，七十九歲的年紀，可以春游，跳廣場舞，種花、看書；也可以對舞伴動心，對陌生老爺爺笑一笑。只要自己開心，不傷害別人，沒有什么不能被允許。

世界紛紛擾擾，每個人都在尋找意義。勇敢表達情感，也是活成自己的重要一課。也許你一直覺得，人生到了某個階段，就該按部就班。其實，給心留一些空白，讓情感自由流淌，會發現每天都是彩色的。

如果你已經五十了，還能冬天吃上一口熱湯、看到喜歡的花開，甚至為身邊某個人多笑兩下，無需自責，不用覺得膽怯。人生短暫，虧待自己才是真的委屈。不管你多大，有心動就有青春。

我們常說“少年心氣”，其實，那也是一種敢于熱愛的勇氣。年紀能增長，愛與動心不會過期。像劉奶奶一樣，坦然做自己，不怕別人眼光，把每一天都活成喜歡的樣子。

所以，那些依然愿意對三兩句玩笑感動，對一句關心歡喜的人，值得熱烈擁抱自己。不管多大，擁有動心的能力，就是最強大的內驅力。哪怕七十九，依然值得灼灼盛放！