小時候,幸福是一件東西,擁有了就幸福。那時候的世界,簡單得像一顆水果糖。幸福是一支兩毛錢的冰棍,舔一口就能甜整個下午;是一個嶄新的文具盒,打開時鐵皮上印著的乘法口訣表都能讓人端詳半天;是過年時口袋里揣著的幾塊壓歲錢,攥在手心,捂出汗也不肯花出去。
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那時候,幸福是具體的、可以握在手心的東西。想要什么,就說出來;得到了,就真的快樂。一顆玻璃彈珠的光澤,足夠照亮一個無聊的午后;一只紙折的飛機,能承載整個童年的想象。幸福不需要理由,也不問長短——擁有,就是全部。
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后來我們長大了。世界變得復雜,幸福也跟著模糊起來。它不再是某件東西,而成了某種狀態、某種感覺、某種可望而不可即的遠方。我們擁有了小時候夢寐以求的東西,卻再也找不回那種“擁有了就幸福”的能力。
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是因為東西變了嗎?不,是心變了。心被欲望撐大了,被焦慮填滿了,被比較磨損了。我們不再為一顆糖而滿足,https://www.zhihu.com/question/2015565495470929750
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其實,幸福從未離開。它只是換了一種模樣,藏在生活的褶皺里——是清晨第一縷照進窗臺的陽光,是下班路上恰好遇到的晚霞,是手機里一句不經意的問候。它依然在,只是我們不再像孩子那樣,愿意為一顆糖停下腳步。
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小時候,幸福是一件東西;長大后,幸福是一種心境。東西易得,心境難求。可若我們能偶爾回到那顆“小時候的心”——把復雜的事情簡單看,把擁有的時刻當全部,那么,即使世界再大、欲望再多,我們依然能在細微處,與幸福重逢。
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