聰明的糊涂著，才是最高級的活法

人生如逆旅，總想什么都看懂、都算明，結果往往事與愿違。聰明太久，難免辛苦，計較太多，只會添憂。正如《紅樓夢》里那句話：“世事洞明皆學問，人情練達即文章。”真正的智慧，不是把一切都捏得死死的，而是在塵世中學會放下幾分、糊涂幾分。

年輕時，誰不想爬上高山，看遍四野？可真正站在高處的人，反倒學會了謙虛。人到中年，見慣風雨，才明白一味鉆牛角尖，不如把日子過成一朵云，自在隨風，偶爾做點“傻事”，也無妨。

廚房里的一鍋熱湯，晨起時透進窗戶的曦光，孩子偶爾打來的一個電話，老友小聚的一杯清茶，這些最普通的溫柔和歡喜，才是歲月里最大的禮物。別把煩惱記得那么緊，別讓心情和皺紋一起加深。正所謂“知足常樂”，一生不過是柴米油鹽間的細水長流。

常常聽老人說：“睜一只眼，閉一只眼，家里安穩，事事順遂。”其實哪里是在糊涂？那是大智若愚，是懂得輕拿輕放后的從容。會裝糊涂，是因為看穿卻不拆穿，明理卻不爭辯，守住自己的溫柔，也給別人留點余地。

生活不是道理越懂就越幸福，有時候自己給自己留一點笨拙，讓心靈有個歇腳的地方。 雖然說：“能忍則安，能謙則久。”許多煩心事，不過是沒學會糊涂。遇到話語不中聽，笑而不答；碰上誤會難解釋，隨風而過。寬于待人，也是寬慰自己。

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http://m.ailvyou.cc/newslist/37909.shtml不如先安頓好自己，把日子過得柔軟，把心情收拾得澄澈。不必事事都據理力爭，和人爭，不如與己和。

歲月悠悠，風雨兼程。或許我們都曾聰明一時，也曾糊涂一陣。可回首往昔，誰忘得了老桌上的飯香，誰舍得青春里的伙伴？真正的美好，是內心的寧靜和淡然。不必事事計較，糊涂些，反倒自在；放開些，更能寬懷。

活得通透，不等于什么都看清；懂得糊涂，才是一種成熟的智慧。眾人睿智，在于寬容。正如魯迅所言：“聰明外露者，終勢難成大器。”不以聰明自居，糊涂一點，順其自然，就是真正圓滿的活法。

人生路短，繁花似錦，愿你我都能帶著那點聰明的糊涂，把簡單的日子過出詩意，把柴米油鹽熬成甜蜜。歲月安好，與溫柔為伴，把每一天活得坦蕩、灑脫。