活動(dòng) | 李松蔚x童書媽媽三川玲：愛與期待的拉鋸——怎樣和孩子找到同頻的未來？

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時(shí)間：2025年2月15日，10:00-12:00

地點(diǎn)：啟明星學(xué)校D+劇院 北京市朝陽區(qū)順白路2號(hào)

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先到先得！

父母對孩子都有期待，或多或少。

合理的期待，是孩子面向未來的方向和錨點(diǎn)；

表達(dá)期待的方法合適，能撬動(dòng)他們的小宇宙！

兩代人對世界的看法畢竟不同步，

父母溝通的方式要是再過于“直白”，

孩子感受到的，就是壓力。

于是，他們的反應(yīng)常常是“我偏不”——

打游戲，看動(dòng)漫，收集各種周邊、手辦，選擇在父母看來沒有什么前景的學(xué)科、專業(yè)，或者茫然無措，兩手一攤——

作為“社會(huì)創(chuàng)新影響力杰出人士講座” 嘉賓，2月15日，啟明星學(xué)校D+劇院，李松蔚老師將對話知名教育博主、啟明星家長童書媽媽三川玲作為從家庭教育咨詢案例、對全球教育的廣泛觀察出發(fā)，探討父母和孩子之間怎樣進(jìn)行柔和的溝通，一次解開愛與期待的矛盾！

對話嘉賓

李松蔚

臨床心理學(xué)博士，現(xiàn)為自由執(zhí)業(yè)心理咨詢師，家庭治療師；知乎心理學(xué)領(lǐng)域高贊答主，得到App《心理學(xué)通識(shí)》、《跟李松蔚學(xué)心理咨詢》主理人，著有《心理學(xué)講義》、《5%的改變》等書，《再見愛人》、《我家那小子》、《荒野會(huì)談》等節(jié)目常駐嘉賓；中國心理學(xué)會(huì)注冊心理師，中國心理衛(wèi)生協(xié)會(huì)婚姻家庭心理健康促進(jìn)專業(yè)委員會(huì)委員，中德兒童與青少年家庭治療連續(xù)培訓(xùn)項(xiàng)目中方教師。

三川玲

啟明星學(xué)校家長、教育出版人、童書評論人、幸福流寫作創(chuàng)始人，TEDkids 智庫專家、中國營地聯(lián)盟理事，親自下場看了上萬孩子作文的閱讀寫作教育者，致力于用順應(yīng)天性的閱讀法與寫作法讓更多人愛上閱讀，享受寫作。出版有《通往幸福的教育》、《孩子天生愛寫作》 （即將出版）、兒童寫作音頻課《順應(yīng)孩子天性的寫作課》。

對話內(nèi)容

? 父母眼中“對的路”，孩子為什么不愿意走？

? 有效家庭溝通的“隱藏密碼”是什么？

? 孩子究竟在想什么，怎樣識(shí)別他們真實(shí)的興趣？

? 如何引導(dǎo)孩子對自己負(fù)責(zé)，來適應(yīng)新的社會(huì)成長環(huán)境？

適合人群

? 對孩子未來感到迷茫、焦慮的父母

? 不知道怎樣平和溝通的爸爸媽媽

? 有萬般經(jīng)驗(yàn)，卻不知道怎樣賦能孩子的家長

活動(dòng)形式

?主題對談：兩位大咖深度解析家庭矛盾背后的心理邏輯

?案例分享：真實(shí)家庭故事的剖析與共鳴

?互動(dòng)提問：為你的具體問題提供現(xiàn)場解答

為什么不能錯(cuò)過？

家庭教育不是你輸我贏的戰(zhàn)場，而是連接兩代人的橋梁。和家庭教育領(lǐng)航者一起，重新理解父母與孩子間的愛與期待，為家庭溝通找到全新方向！

父母的覺知，是孩子成長的起點(diǎn)。我們歡迎您來，支持孩子一生只有一次的成長！

Time and Location

Time: February 15, 2025, 10:00-12:00 am
Venue: D+ Theater, Daystar Academy, No.2, Shunbai Road, Chaoyang District (with online live streaming)

? Language: This even will be conducted in Chinese only.

Limited seats for non-Daystar family

Please register ASAP!

Parents all have expectations for their children, to a greater or lesser degree.
Reasonable expectations serve as a direction and anchor for a child’s future;
Expressing expectations in an appropriate way can positively impact their universe!

The worldviews of two generations are not necessarily in sync.
If parents express their expectations too "bluntly",
Their child might feel pressure.

So their response may be, "I won't do it."
Instead, they play games, watch animations, collect various figurines, choose subjects and majors that seem to have no future in their parents' eyes, or feel aimless and shrug their shoulders.

As "Inno-Impact Distinguished Speaker", on February 15, at Daystar’s D+ Theater, Mr. Li Songwei will have a dialogue with the renowned education blogger and Daystar parent, Ms. San Chuan Ling. Drawing from family education consulting cases and their broad observations of global education, they will discuss how parents and children can engage in gentle communication to resolve the contradictions between love and expectations!

Speaker

Li Songwei

Doctoral degree in clinical psychology, currently a freelance psychologist and family therapist. High-scoring Zhihu psychology expert, host of the Psychology Basics and Learn Psychology Counseling with Li Songwei programs on the app Dedao, author of the books Psychology Lectures and 5% Change, and a frequent guest on programs like Goodbye My Love, That Kid of Mine, and Wilderness Talk. Registered psychologist of the Chinese Psychological Society, member of the Marriage and Family Mental Health Promotion Professional Committee of the Chinese Mental Health Association, Chinese teacher in the China-Germany Children and Adolescent Family Therapy Training Program.

San Chuan Ling

Education publisher, children's book critic, founder of the Happiness Flow writing project, TEDkids think tank expert, member of the China Camp Union, a reading and writing education practitioner who has personally read over tens of thousands of children's compositions, committed to using reading and writing methods that align with children's natural tendencies to help more people fall in love with reading and enjoy writing. Published works include Education Towards Happiness, Children Naturally Love Writing (to be published soon), and the children's writing audio course, A Writing Course That Aligns with Children's Nature.

Discussion Topics

? Why don't children want to take the "right path" in the eyes of parents?

? What is the "hidden code" for effective family communication?
? What are children really thinking, and how to identify their true interests?
? How to guide children to be responsible for themselves and adapt to the new social growth environment?

Target Audience

? Parents who feel confused and anxious about their children's future

? Parents who don't know how to communicate calmly
? Parents with abundant experience but don't know how to empower their children

Event Format

? Topic dialogue: The experts will share in-depth analysis of the psychological logic behind family contradictions.
? Case sharing: Analysis and significance of real family stories.
? Interactive Q&A: On-site answers to your specific questions.